This is the question that is on many peoples lips today. What sort of a society do we live in where a teenager on a BMX bike rides up to an eleven year old boy, shoots and kills him and then rides away again? There is no apparent motive for the killing of Rhys Jones. He was - so we are told - just an ordinary eleven year old boy whose big passion in life was football and Everton Football Club.
Britain is at a genuine crossroads today. A knife and gun culture is virulent in our cities and children are being killed on a far too regular basis. The solutions to these problems are not simple, yet there is a danger of thinking the problems are so insurmountable that society sits back in a state of inertia. Action is what is needed, however, society has to be ready to act.
I am discovering that life as a parent is not an easy task. I seem to be either too soft or too hard and of course how you discipline a child all depends on your mood at the time. I was always in favour of smacking, using the argument that it never did me any harm, but I have been persuaded by the other argument of 'you can't say violence is wrong and then discipline your child by using violence.' Plus, you are more likely to smack a child when you are in a bad mood. If you were in a better mood there is more chance you would deal with the situation in a calmer and reasoned way, which would be better for you and your child. All you can do is instill in to them what is right and what is wrong; to be open minded and fair; and to treat others with the respect they would want themselves. There are too many children who do not receive this nurture and it is hardly surprising that many feel so undervalued that they join a gang where they feel a valued member.
At the crossroads we are at now we have to start collectively demanding action from politicians and the judiciary. The police are undermanned and under resourced. There needs to be a vast increase in the number of police officers and they need to be seen. When Rudolph Guliani - the former Mayor of New York - was first elected, it was on a mandate of action. New Yorkers were sick of crime and the mayor increased police numbers and made sure the courts handed out tougher sentences. If you commit a crime you are now more likely to be caught and you know you won't just get a wrap around the knuckles and told to go away and sin no more. The net result of this approach was to vastly reduce crime in New York. Ray Mallon - former police superintendent - did the same in Middlesbrough. He is still a popular man and the electorate there have re-elected him as their mayor. It can be done - it just needs the will.
The breakup of society starts in the home. It then spreads in to the local community where children feel they are not wanted and the lawful majority are terrorised by gangs. We all have a part to play as parents, relations, family friends and citizens in making sure our children are loved and valued; taught right from wrong and are disciplined. However when that fails, politicians have a duty to us, and that is the crossroads where Gordon Brown is at the moment. More and more of us are calling for action and the choices facing the prime minister are simple. We want more police officers and they need to be visible. We want punishments that fit the crime. We want an education system that does not fail our children. We want teachers free to teach and not have to constantly think about the next round of national tests and what position the school will be on a league table. Perhaps then our kids will be more numerate and literate. We want action and we have to collectively voice that. If we do there is a chance Mr Brown and his government will heed our call. There is a way to make this country a better and safer place. Don't just sit back and twiddle your thumbs.